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some new local girls have joined our office last week.
god they r totally different than what i imagined they would be like. they go for parties, dance, drink and 2 of them even smoke during the break time ... never in my dreams i thought muslim girls to behave like this ... i am not telling its wrong , but its shocking when compared to the image they project outside about girls in middle east :o
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teh mu'athin gals i know luv sheeha..gals smokin is nothin new!!! Drinkin..hmm..they gotta be caned!!!
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did u expect that all the local girls were perfect...
welcome to the real world..
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haha yea welocme to the real world as was said
you see always remember this
"The title B I T C H dont apply to every woman . but every woman gots alittle bit of B I T C H in em"
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Mayflower can you introduce them to me ? ha ha ha
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kPax Wrote:did u expect that all the local girls were perfect...
welcome to the real world..
Is that mean a woman who drinks and smoke are definately not perfect? So a woman who doesn't drink and smoke = perfect?
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well I know what you mean Mayfl.
I have lots of local friends and it wasnt a shock for me cause I have been brought up here. Some of my local friends from Yemen & SA were forced to wear Hijab. On the other hand, friends from Egypt, American, Syria ..were pretty westernized in dressing and stuff, I saw their moms in Hijab.... and one good thing was that these girls were not forced Hijab.. I mean one of my friend suddenly adopted Hijab.. and she did it cause she felt like it.
Also in some local families, girls start Hijab right after they enter puberty... and others after they get married
. it all depends.
Also, some of the girls who would do Hijab outside.. were allowed to wear revealing gowns in wedding, family parties and stuff
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Smoking is okay these days... but yeh alcohol is shocking...
I guess local girls rock, they have the best heart, once your friends with them.
I believe in Karma what you give is what you get in return.
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CheckShoo:
Quote:kPax wrote:
did u expect that all the local girls were perfect...
welcome to the real world..
Is that mean a woman who drinks and smoke are definately not perfect? So a woman who doesn't drink and smoke = perfect?
I meant muslim local girls...
yes if u consider Islam...not drinking, smoking,etc is being "perfect" in other words a good muslim...were as in other cultures its okay..
the picture that mayflower had of local girls is that they were "perfect"...not doing anything wrong or bad or unacceptable in islam...and when she found out that some do drink and smoke...she was shocked and not "perfect"...get it ???
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Its pretty distressing to know that this is whats going on in Australia,
it happens here in oz with muslim galz of all nationalities, if only they could strike a balance between the two lifestyles!
Ofcourse the drinking and smoking part are abhorent, downright disgusting (no offence to the non muslims!)
We have fem only parties where we dress /dance and just have fun,
but as soon as we leave, we 'coverup'.
The best of both worlds, but within the ' law'. :wink:
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A girl can drink & smoke & is not classified as perfect.. YET a girl may not booze or fag but may not be perfect... eh?  cratch:
I believe in Karma what you give is what you get in return.
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Obvoiusly, once again u dont get it Mr HP,
it has been said time and again that u get ppl who just belong to a religion by name, but do not practise upon the teachings.
Muslim women conceal themselves from vile ppl like you,( no manners, no respect, no shame , no dignity,).
These 'burqa ladies' may look weird to you, but in the eyes of their beloved, they are honoured / cherished/ loved , why ? because they are concealing themselves from other men, and keeping themselves pure, and beautifying themselves soley for their husbands, and thats all that matters.
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Heya,
I will be moving into an appartment in Allenby next January 8)
Any tips where to hang during my time off? 
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CheckShoo Wrote:kPax Wrote:did u expect that all the local girls were perfect...
welcome to the real world..
Is that mean a woman who drinks and smoke are definately not perfect? So a woman who doesn't drink and smoke = perfect?
good question? Nah kPax meant perfect as local gals and guys portray as not drinking , mixing etc..
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Defo Wrote:Heya,
I will be moving into an appartment in Allenby next January 8)
Any tips where to hang during my time off?
wrong section posting , post in the apartment section
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westerndiamond Wrote:A girl can drink & smoke & is not classified as perfect.. YET a girl may not booze or fag but may not be perfect... eh? cratch:
bsaolute truth EJ - same applies for men too!!!
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shaakira Wrote:These 'burqa ladies' may look weird to you, but in the eyes of their beloved, they are honoured / cherished/ loved , why ? because they are concealing themselves from other men, and keeping themselves pure, and beautifying themselves soley for their husbands, and thats all that matters.
Well said shaakira,
Hope someone is listening. usually i get confused why the west consider the lady with cover in islam as being oppressed and forced to do so, or that it is unjust for her, while in the church the sisters do the same in addition to being "married to the christ" and they don't question or object to that.
Welll, glad they hear it from an insider that our ladies choose this path and they like it.
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