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where does a guy usually take a girl on a first date in Brisbane? any suggestions?
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Personally I don't like "romantic", candle, quiet restaurant for the first date. I enjoy more in a normal restaurant or a pub, as we can laugh, talk loud and no one cares.
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Romantic dinner? On a first date? I don't think so, way too intimate. You want a casual drink somewhere where there's auite a few other people around, otherwise there's too much pressure.
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i would prefer to take her to a pub with live music....
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Alcoholic Wrote:Romantic dinner? On a first date? I don't think so, way too intimate. You want a casual drink somewhere where there's auite a few other people around, otherwise there's too much pressure.
Yeah so true !!! romantic dinner on a first date makes you look desperate !!! dude you have to understand girls want and love challenge !! you give in too soon then theres your sudden death !!! they loved to be led on... they love men who seemed available but not men who seemed reachable but not,... they actually love to hunt than to be hunted,... cause if you look good and dress good enough then there should be no reason to actually be desperate !!!! yeah ask her for a beer ,.. just to give the impression that you like her , then be cool, original and spuntanious !!!
i say i would prob. take my date to Scarlett on the first date...
then .. on second .. ill just ask her a casual dinner at Ponderosa (hahahaha! just for kicks)
Then if i feel that she's on to me ,.. on the third date ill take her to Sho - Cho's for Vodka and Sushi !! just imagine the mixture of sexy house music by DJ Ellie with diff kinds of vodka ,... and what could be more sexier than getting drunk with vodka and sushi !!! at the end of the night you guys would be hotter than wassabe !!!!!
Being a DJ is not a GOD given talent !!!!
its a Gift ..... by who ??? .... hmmmm
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Also there's a fine line between being over keen and not keen enough.
Girls like to get text messages and phone calls and blokes the most irritating thing is when a guy says he'll call and then doesn't. Women's brains think differently, yes we actually do hang onto the phone waiting for you to call.
Cool nights out are good, good food, good conversation a few drinks maybe some dancing.
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Agree on the fine line that Chocaholic's mentioned...you can't be too laid back or the girl will not be sure that you're even interested - but if you're too eager that's offputting too. I am a personal fan of the thank you text/email the day after your first date - shows you are interested and is also polite. Something like Barasti Bar is good for a first date - it's impressive but not too much pressure and the music is not too loud so you have the chance to talk and get to know each other.
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Snype's idea seems to have been shot down by pretty much every female in here :lol:
A lite meal and a few sweet drinks, not too much though, just try to get a feel for one another.
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Sniper's date ideas are good, just maybe a little too full on for a first date. Not sure about the salsa though - you'd really have to make sure she was comfortable with dancing and you were damn good at it or it could be a disaster....
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