RIEL, darling, never call yourself basic and never blame your hair colour, I am the blondest brunette you will ever meet and just because one person gets one thing, does not in any way shape or form meant that the next person will 'get it'
Putting it down to the fact that we are 'numerically challenged' is quite acceptable, or feel free to blame the ravages of green house gas effects on our very delicate neural matter, quite possibly numerous 'beverages' of certain types could also attribute to this kind of 'incapacitating loss' but never, dear lady, ever because you are 'basic', you would need to be male for that.
Please note though that the male of our species will blame all of these nuances and more (when a woman will only use possibly one) and will then proceed to use this to explain the mysterious "Penthouse", "Playboy" or "Debbie Does Dallas" magazines or video that has managed to show up in the home, I feel we can also allow Yorky to use this excuse for his very interesting and (I find funny) avatar.
I must apologise though Yorky, I have no answer to your original question as I receive the email notifications and simply either follow or delete them.