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long distance relationships
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Marrian Wrote:
Quote:And the hardest part of it is, starting anew, getting to know, starting from scratch, adjustment stage. Not again! Its like you have a set of expectations outlined for the next guy and if he can't comply, you're gonna end up heartbroken.

would that mean, on your experience there's no third party involved? how come you gave up just cuz of the distance, where you know from the start that working abroad will mean thousand of miles away? So how about the love for 6++ years?!

hi my old friend ... LETS GET REAL !!!!!!! LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP GOT ONLy 10 % chance of success so ... a real peice of advice ..

Leave as FRIENDs ... in that case he/she would be yours forever ....
rather than leave as lovers and fight a loosing battle ... where at the end you know bad words would be given, with shatterd trust and posibly violent reactions.

while with friends ... if all works out well and you come back ... he's or you are still single then you can continue what you've started...

so the Q is ... what he found someone while ur gone....??? accept it and be happy for him. it only means that your not meant for each other.. and i advice you to do the same. and be happy to know that even though he has someone you know that you didnt loose him ... because he's your friend...

now isnt that a prettier picture ....

than going through agonizing 3-4 years of restrictions, jealousy miss trust ... i mean LETS BE real all long distance relationship suffer from this dillema, and 90 perscent of them end up in flames !!!, some call them names they wont even call their enemies, some killed themselves, some killed, etc. etc. ...

another Q' why are they reacting like that ??? because trust was broken.. and they all felt cheated, betrayed... by someone who they love ... trust ...
and pride comes to play to....

so ... if you really treasure and love the guy ... make friends with him ... and see when you come back .... its a win win situation ....

good = you get back together ...
bad = you lost him but you have a friend ...

GOOD LUCK !!



Messages In This Thread
long distance relationships - by Marrian - 03-03-2005, 08:33 PM
[No subject] - by Kayl - 03-04-2005, 04:24 PM
[No subject] - by UAQ 846 AM PINOY FM sa AM - 03-04-2005, 05:36 PM
[No subject] - by yurki500 - 03-04-2005, 08:25 PM
[No subject] - by meRIELytes2004 - 03-04-2005, 08:42 PM
TRY THIS. - by UAQ 846 AM PINOY FM sa AM - 03-04-2005, 09:23 PM
[No subject] - by Marrian - 03-05-2005, 06:40 PM
not a cool off - by UAQ 846 AM PINOY FM sa AM - 03-05-2005, 07:11 PM
[No subject] - by leila - 03-05-2005, 10:14 PM
[No subject] - by Marrian - 03-15-2005, 09:58 PM
[No subject] - by yurki500 - 03-15-2005, 10:15 PM
[No subject] - by Marrian - 03-15-2005, 10:19 PM
[No subject] - by yurki500 - 03-15-2005, 10:30 PM
[No subject] - by Marrian - 03-15-2005, 11:12 PM
[No subject] - by RiFQa - 03-16-2005, 01:26 AM
it never works - by ziajaveds - 03-16-2005, 04:59 PM
[No subject] - by yurki500 - 03-16-2005, 06:56 PM
[No subject] - by Marrian - 03-16-2005, 08:45 PM
[No subject] - by yurki500 - 03-16-2005, 08:47 PM
[No subject] - by Marrian - 03-16-2005, 08:48 PM
[No subject] - by yurki500 - 03-16-2005, 08:51 PM
[No subject] - by Marrian - 03-16-2005, 08:56 PM
[No subject] - by leila - 03-16-2005, 09:41 PM
[No subject] - by Marrian - 03-17-2005, 01:38 AM
Hey... Victory - by sa4877 - 03-17-2005, 11:23 AM
[No subject] - by Marrian - 03-17-2005, 06:11 PM
[No subject] - by leila - 03-17-2005, 09:09 PM
[No subject] - by Kalay - 03-21-2005, 03:35 PM
[No subject] - by mINOR pLEASURE - 03-21-2005, 07:42 PM
[No subject] - by mINOR pLEASURE - 03-21-2005, 07:51 PM
my conclusion... - by Marrian - 03-21-2005, 10:35 PM
[No subject] - by yurki500 - 03-22-2005, 07:34 PM
[No subject] - by CheckShoo - 04-11-2005, 11:39 AM
[No subject] - by shakira - 04-26-2005, 08:47 PM
[No subject] - by localo - 04-27-2005, 02:59 AM
[No subject] - by Mizz_Fabolous - 05-09-2005, 04:03 PM
[No subject] - by Snype - 05-10-2005, 12:52 AM
[No subject] - by Mizz_Fabolous - 05-10-2005, 09:45 AM
[No subject] - by Mizz_Fabolous - 05-10-2005, 09:58 AM
... - by sa4877 - 05-10-2005, 12:35 PM
[No subject] - by gugugaga - 05-10-2005, 04:44 PM
[No subject] - by Marrian - 06-08-2005, 08:37 PM
[No subject] - by kupsy - 06-09-2005, 09:50 PM
[No subject] - by laila k m - 06-10-2005, 10:58 PM
[No subject] - by Snype - 06-10-2005, 10:59 PM
[No subject] - by laila k m - 06-10-2005, 11:02 PM
[No subject] - by Snype - 06-10-2005, 11:07 PM
[No subject] - by laila k m - 06-10-2005, 11:10 PM
[No subject] - by Snype - 06-10-2005, 11:13 PM
[No subject] - by Pumpkin Escobar - 06-12-2005, 09:05 PM
[No subject] - by Brisbane - 06-12-2005, 10:46 PM
[No subject] - by Snype - 06-13-2005, 12:37 AM
[No subject] - by nezar33 - 07-17-2005, 10:39 AM
[No subject] - by nayr - 10-09-2005, 08:31 AM
[No subject] - by tinkerbella - 10-09-2005, 09:51 PM
[No subject] - by Funlover - 10-17-2005, 12:33 PM
[No subject] - by cadmus - 10-17-2005, 01:40 PM
[No subject] - by mylunarcry - 10-27-2005, 11:33 AM
once maybe twice not really - by constantine - 10-27-2005, 12:06 PM
[No subject] - by mylunarcry - 11-07-2005, 08:06 PM
sometimes it does work out - by constantine - 11-08-2005, 07:47 AM
[No subject] - by Rosie - 11-09-2005, 02:30 AM
Home alone - by constantine - 11-09-2005, 06:07 AM
[No subject] - by BFG-9000 - 11-09-2005, 08:31 AM
[No subject] - by Rosie - 11-11-2005, 08:05 PM
[No subject] - by aduberdu - 12-27-2005, 05:49 PM
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[No subject] - by cutieara - 01-20-2006, 12:51 PM
Re: long distance relationships - by Mila1000 - 02-01-2006, 01:37 PM
[No subject] - by cutieara - 02-04-2006, 04:32 AM
Believe in your love!! - by reem - 02-05-2006, 01:26 PM
Re: Believe in your love!! - by Defo - 02-05-2006, 02:55 PM
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