03-05-2005, 07:11 PM
Cooling off and BEING FRiends are two totally diff. things ,...
when you say cooling off ... as written cooling off!!
it means GIVING UP ,
while when you become friends, your still warm but keeping your doors open, and your love that you feel for eachother would still be there
thats why you two should keep in touch...
its giving love unconditionally,..
love should not be forced nor does comitment...
in this way .... at the end when you find that he/she is waiting then you would know that, that is love,.....
remember YOU CAN NEVER FIND OUT if a person's love is TRUE by restricting him/her you would only push that person away,..
while usually in most relationship,.. specially long distance .... it fails because of lack of trust due to the strains of "comitment" where the string would eventually choke you.
"if you love someone set him/her free... when he/she returns... then you would know he/she's yours .."
and besides.... we have no right to restrict other people of the things they should do.. or feel .... its best to give them a chance to do the things or feel the things you want them feel on their own. (time, self,)
but then again ... thats my opinion ..... we all have diff. opinion ... (avoiding a forum debate :lol: )
when you say cooling off ... as written cooling off!!
it means GIVING UP ,
while when you become friends, your still warm but keeping your doors open, and your love that you feel for eachother would still be there
thats why you two should keep in touch...
its giving love unconditionally,..
love should not be forced nor does comitment...
in this way .... at the end when you find that he/she is waiting then you would know that, that is love,.....
remember YOU CAN NEVER FIND OUT if a person's love is TRUE by restricting him/her you would only push that person away,..
while usually in most relationship,.. specially long distance .... it fails because of lack of trust due to the strains of "comitment" where the string would eventually choke you.
"if you love someone set him/her free... when he/she returns... then you would know he/she's yours .."
and besides.... we have no right to restrict other people of the things they should do.. or feel .... its best to give them a chance to do the things or feel the things you want them feel on their own. (time, self,)
but then again ... thats my opinion ..... we all have diff. opinion ... (avoiding a forum debate :lol: )
Hi I'm Blade i do the 7-9r show @ UAQ 846 !!
brodcasting from 5pm - 11pm
5-6 anything goes
7-9 Pinoy rock/alternative
9-11 Love songs
brodcasting from 5pm - 11pm
5-6 anything goes
7-9 Pinoy rock/alternative
9-11 Love songs