10-09-2005, 08:31 AM
Love masters! YOUR VIEWS PLS....
insanely in love??? well, im married man when i met this girl, she's my crush then, i found a way to tell her how i felt 'bout her, then we dated until 6 months, she accepted my status, things are quite good when she left, we have not yet broke up, we are still communcating with each other, we talk often over the phone, chat, etc...
The problem is, we're miles apart, i have a good job here and a family here. My relationship with my wife is another story. we're not in good terms lately.
However, i am afraid in losing this girl, i think i'm madly in love with her and i cant get her out of freakin mind...I know distance relationship does not work. chances are she could find someone else there, thats what i'm afraid of. She wants security. for the meantime i cant give it to her since i have to settle 1st my prob with my wife and kid.
She's always tellin me how she love me, miss me and she'll wait for and vise versa i told her also what i "TRULY" feel about her... The thing is, is this could last??? Is not that i dont trust her, but I dont want to expect much from her, because i know her situation there and the culture of OCW....loneliness, homesickness are the evil factors that tear relationships (correct me if i'm wrong)...And i dont want to get hurt in the end....
She's convincing me to go with her, i think i'am not ready for that, hence i have stable job here and pays me good...........Help she's driving me crazy...
insanely in love??? well, im married man when i met this girl, she's my crush then, i found a way to tell her how i felt 'bout her, then we dated until 6 months, she accepted my status, things are quite good when she left, we have not yet broke up, we are still communcating with each other, we talk often over the phone, chat, etc...
The problem is, we're miles apart, i have a good job here and a family here. My relationship with my wife is another story. we're not in good terms lately.
However, i am afraid in losing this girl, i think i'm madly in love with her and i cant get her out of freakin mind...I know distance relationship does not work. chances are she could find someone else there, thats what i'm afraid of. She wants security. for the meantime i cant give it to her since i have to settle 1st my prob with my wife and kid.
She's always tellin me how she love me, miss me and she'll wait for and vise versa i told her also what i "TRULY" feel about her... The thing is, is this could last??? Is not that i dont trust her, but I dont want to expect much from her, because i know her situation there and the culture of OCW....loneliness, homesickness are the evil factors that tear relationships (correct me if i'm wrong)...And i dont want to get hurt in the end....
She's convincing me to go with her, i think i'am not ready for that, hence i have stable job here and pays me good...........Help she's driving me crazy...