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Where do you find sincere guys in Brisbane?? - panaghoy - 07-24-2005
I'm tired of dating game.. been here for 7 months now. i know all of us are capable of loving but it seems everyone are so afraid to fall in love.
Re: Where do you find sincere guys in Brisbane?? - JimmyHarter - 07-24-2005
panaghoy Wrote:I'm tired of dating game.. been here for 7 months now. i know all of us are capable of loving but it seems everyone are so afraid to fall in love.
sincere guys?
Import them
- cadmus - 07-24-2005
i know a guy who is very decent...if you want i can give u his contacts
- Pumpkin Escobar - 07-24-2005
Find an American :wink:
- JimmyHarter - 07-25-2005
Pumpkin Escobar Wrote:Find an American :wink:
aren't you smooth :wink:
Re: Where do you find sincere guys in Brisbane?? - CheckShoo - 07-25-2005
panaghoy Wrote:I'm tired of dating game.. been here for 7 months now. i know all of us are capable of loving but it seems everyone are so afraid to fall in love.
I think they are not afriad to fall in love, they just don't want to be in love.
- panaghoy - 07-25-2005
i beg to disagree CheckShoo. i know somehow, somewhere deep in our hearts we wanted to be loved and be in-love. just that everyone is so afraid to fall in love especially here in Brisbane... btw, have u found a serious relationship here? if u have, then maybe im wrong =)
- CheckShoo - 07-25-2005
Besides, if you want to find a good man, the best way is not to try hard! Take it easy then you will see a good man. Telling everyone you want to find a sincere bf was a bad idea! Posting your picture was a bad idea <--- if that is you in the picture. Acting desperate will only attract bad guys who want to take advantage of your desperation!!
What I am trying to say is when you are looking for a bf you will start to compare the guy against your standards... and really you can't find out everything about this guy in only a month or 2, so b4 you can see his good things you already bad list him cause you already dug out all his bad things (in your own stardard list). But when you are only meeting a friend then you don't really care how he looks, what he does or his age etc... <----- then eventually you will see one of you friends around you actually is a good man for you.
Take your time, next time when you meet a guy, treat him like a normal friend... hang out a bit maybe with other friends as well. Try to find out more about him b4 you start dating him.
- CheckShoo - 07-25-2005
panaghoy Wrote:i beg to disagree CheckShoo. i know somehow, somewhere deep in our hearts we wanted to be loved and be in-love. just that everyone is so afraid to fall in love especially here in Brisbane... btw, have u found a serious relationship here? if u have, then maybe im wrong =)
Yes sure everyone wants to me loved... but there is no need to try hard... acting desperate will scare guys away... even if my bf talk about family having baby and getting marry now, I will pack and run <----- that is because I met him only for a couple months, we should not think about getting marry or family b4 we even know each other.
Yes I am in a relationship and I am sure I love this guy and he loves me. Yes I met him here in Brisbane but to me I am not sure what you mean of a serious relationship... if you mean getting marry and having a family. Then I think you need more time than 7 months. To me me and my bf is serious enough.
- panaghoy - 07-25-2005
Chill Out CheckShoo! What is wrong with u?? the only reason that i signed for this site is becoz i wanted to express my thoughts and somehow find someone who can relate to what i feel... how can u be so naive??? have u ever been in love before?? perhaps not! becoz obviously u didnt get what i mean...
and with my picture being posted on this site, whats wrong with that?? I WANTED TO GIVE IDENTITY TO PANAGHOY not like someone whose not sure about him or herself and instead using other people face and worst using animal picture like urs =) duh?!?
hey, i just wanted to connect... if u get what i mean?? im sorry if i offended you but it will not hurt if u OPEN your mind.
- CheckShoo - 07-25-2005
panaghoy Wrote:Chill Out CheckShoo! What is wrong with u?? the only reason that i signed for this site is becoz i wanted to express my thoughts and somehow find someone who can relate to what i feel... how can u be so naive??? have u ever been in love before?? perhaps not! becoz obviously u didnt get what i mean...
and with my picture being posted on this site, whats wrong with that?? I WANTED TO GIVE IDENTITY TO PANAGHOY not like someone whose not sure about him or herself and instead using other people face and worst using animal picture like urs =) duh?!?
hey, i just wanted to connect... if u get what i mean?? im sorry if i offended you but it will not hurt if u OPEN your mind.
I am chilled...
maybe you are right i have never been in love b4, I don't know how to love someone <--- I guess.
I guess nothing wrong with posting your own pic on the site, but if you are posting your pic on the site with a question of "where can you find a sincere man?" then people like me (maybe just me) will automatically think you are looking for a date here.
I also think nothing wrong with my picture, or using animal pic. We are in the internet, we are talking to everyone here, you for example, I saw your post and start talking to you and I don't even know you. I think I feel more comfortable not letting everyone know my face. You don't just talk to eveyone when you are on the street right? same principal we are alll stranger to each other. I have met a couple people face to face after we got to know each other more.
- panaghoy - 07-25-2005
i know what u mean with the avatar thing... well probably thats how u are. in my case, i dont have problem posting my photo as long as it fits my taste... i mean nothing porno or violent. like i said i wanted to give identity to panaghoy i dont wanna use animal photo.
and i think people have different interpretation... its a matter of relating to other people's mind. if ur seeing it differently, then maybe we will not get along. we are 2 different person, we have different way of life. and i dont have problem with that. its u, not that i dont give value to anything u said but i am sure about myself... other people might have same level of thinking as urs and bad men might actually try to hook me but at the end of the day IT IS ME WHOOSE GONNA ACT UPON IT.
- JimmyHarter - 07-25-2005
mieow girls :?
let it go
- panaghoy - 07-25-2005
so Bobbie, what do u think?? do men doesnt want to fall in love or afraid to fall in love? please enlighten us...
- CheckShoo - 07-25-2005
JimmyHarter Wrote:mieow girls :?
let it go
we are only having a discussion... ... that's what the forum for, people giving their opinions/ ideas!!
- CheckShoo - 07-25-2005
Panaghoy, is that you too in the pic? I think I like the other one better!!