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- mINOR pLEASURE - 08-22-2005
keihl Wrote:i agree with choco.. both parties must exert effort to make the relationship work..
and also, for a relationship to blossom and last for a long time, both have to continue to develop and to mature together and individually.. It is unhealthy to let your world revolve around your partner as if theres no one else in this world but the two of you.. you both have to have the space for personal growth and time for yourselves..
most importantly, while you are lovers, you should also be the best of friends.. after a tiring day, it would be nice to just talk to him/her telling anecdotes, exchanging views, catching up on the going ons of each others lives..
when all is said and done, he(she) is not only your best friend,he(she) is also your shock-bsaorber, your adviser, your inspiration, your motivation, your everything..
right on !!! ...
and to keep a lasting relationship you should start one on the right track... i mean .. it should be a come as you are deal .... a realtionship and love that has no pretentions ... a relationship that lets you be who you are ... a relationship that reflects and enhance your existence viceversa ... one major factor of a relationship getting boring or sour is when both party couldnt express what they would like to express !!! because the would relationship had started with false expression and to keep up with the synthethic version of you is a full tim job ... and it gets tiring ..